Day Sixty-eight

Feest Isolation Days – 21 May

Some parents with young children are worried about sending their kids back to school on the first of June.  Surely the evidence needs to be more transparent so that they feel confident? Teachers have been educating key workers kids for weeks now and there must have been lessons learned.  Couldn’t those teachers be tested for antibodies and/or at the very least couldn’t the data on how many teachers became ill with the virus be released?  Wouldn’t that help?  It could certainly provide a bit more reassurance to concerned parents and teachers .

Working parents are understandably keen to get back to work, but they need to be certain that the decisions they take are appropriate, and importantly, safe for their kids.  That’s what good parenting is all about.

Over thirty years ago, when I was a single parent Mum, and my son was in Primary school, I worked as the Manager and Director of a free weekly newspaper in Exeter. We were distinct from the daily evening paper, but owned by the same group – Northcliffe.  At the time there were two other free papers in town, and my job was to see them off and keep the advertising revenue stream flowing into the Northcliffe coffers. It was a busy and demanding job. There were no relatives I could call on to help with child care, although there was plenty of support from friends which was invaluable and we managed well. We had a great deal of fun, and the job was fantastic!  In time, we saw off the other weekly papers and the Exeter Leader eventually became the only free weekly newspaper in Exeter.

Exeter Leader coaster – Still sits on my desk!!

During the working day, there were lots of phone calls, meetings and discussions that often went on for ages.  One day, my secretary told me there was a phone call I had to take. 

“Mrs. Vanags?”  (as I was then)

“Yes” I replied.

“This is Miss S, your son’s Primary School headteacher.”

“Is he all right?”  I was on my feet and already out the door filled with worry.

“He’s fine.  He’d be much better if you were to come and pick him up though. School finished nearly an hour ago!”

I had no idea of the time! When I got there I felt as small as the furniture. The gaze of Miss S turned into a kind smile.

My son was happy to see me but had had a great time sitting in the headmistress’ office.  He was holding a cartoon of juice in one hand and a candy bar in the other.  We shared a big hug.

Never, ever, did I miss pick up time again! 

Getting kids back to school is important.  Working is required.  Let’s hope the government and the teachers can agree what is safe for the students.  Our kids deserve the best we can give them even though sometimes, with the best will in the world, we sometimes make mistakes.  Let’s hope they get this one right!!


With love,

Kathy x